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I’m in my mid twenties, and I’ve been trying to lose weight on and off for years now. I’m not obese, but I’m an apple shape and so I can’t get away with having as much fat on me. I’m about a size 14-16 (UK). I’m just finding it so frustrating that in the city I live in / the friends I know, no one seems to go to the gym religiously , they go out drinking all the time , eat shit and still have nice bodies / tight stomachs and I just don’t understand HOW. Did all the skinny people just come to live here? Where are all the overweight people who have to fight to be in shape? I’m just getting so demotivated because I’m going to the gym and eating right yet I still don’t look as good as others.
Look, I know it shouldn’t matter about other people and I should focus on myself and whining about unfairness won’t make a difference to me. But it IS hard when you have to say no to drinks and social activities and eating out because you can’t keep up with everyone else without paying for it. I just want to know what their secret is. I don’t get where all the normal overweight people are.
And if they are secretly not eating much, why do they find it so easy an I don’t? Sometimes I get so hungry and I can’t fight it. Maybe that is also genetically determined? The psychological desire to eat?
I’m just feeling so frustrated and needed to vent and also see if anyone else feels like this.
Thanks for listening.
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